Ep 119: A Voice from the Clouds (GH)

What does it really mean to abide in Jesus? In this Greenhouse episode, Brian, Handsome Kyle, and Doc continue the conversation from Episode 118 on Jesusโ€™ relational and emotional security. If Jesus is the most secure person in human history โ€” unshaken by rejection, manipulation, pressure, praise, criticism, or failure โ€” then what does that reveal about abiding in the Fatherโ€™s love? The conversation returns to the Fatherโ€™s words at Jesusโ€™ baptism: โ€œThis is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.โ€ Jesus does not merely know this intellectually. He lives from it. His identity is rooted in belovedness, and His actions flow from secure attachment to the Father. Brian, Handsome Kyle, and Doc explore why many followers of Jesus struggle to live from that same security. We may believe we are loved by God, but our hearts often tell a different story. Circumstances, failure, shame, self-loathing, anxiety, people-pleasing, and the need for control can reveal places where we are not yet resting in the Fatherโ€™s love.

BY Brian Fisher

March 6, 2025

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Ep 119: A Voice from the Clouds (GH)
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Relationally Secure like Jesus

What does it mean that Jesus is the most relationally and emotionally secure human being in history?

The guys jump back into the Greenhouse to dissect the idea that, based on Jesus’s life, we can become more relationally secure, attuned, and restful in our relationships with God, others, and ourselves. Though this is not normally explored in modern-day discipleship, it is directly related to the biblical concept of โ€œabiding.โ€

They also explore ways that relational insecurity finds its way into our faith today – and some of those explorations are surprising.

Come on in and enjoy another deep, perhaps out-of-the-box Greenhouse discussion as we continue our discussion from Episode 118. 

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